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Friday, June 23, 2006

Lay all your love on me....

The problem of focusing all your love on one person is that you might be left with precious little to spare for others in your life. This works out well if you are more individualistic rather than a communal spirit. Let me phrase this in an objective and factual manner; "people who are committed are always more busy than bachelors (read as unisex)". the term 'busy' is defined in the normal context, just busy with life, lots of stuff to do, little time to spare etc. etc... If you think that is too much of a jump, you may start at square zero, "committed people have less time to spare for other friends"...... hence my genuine dissapointment whenever one of my friends takes another step up that ladder.

Duuuh, 'stupid prabath' ... you say.. 'thats so obvious , and its no bloody problem either... dont get all saintly on us.... you would be singing a different tune if you were on the other side of the fence'.... True true true! Did I ever say I was right? ;-) This is not about right or wrong, its just the way life is :-D.

So what the fuck is my problem/excuse for another post? Honestly, 1) Just want to hear what people think about this 2) Will I be as bad as the next poster ;-) if I were on the other side? Does conciously acting upon this help?

Disclaimer : My topics will get more obnoxious and contain morally degrading infantile attempts at eliciting response and if you are offended in anyway... heh heh.... yeah... take your worst guess and shove it in again! (what comes out the second time may be entered in the blog for better effect)

1 Comments:

  • One of my best friends took his vows and happily stepped into eternal bonding yesterday.... a part of me feels empty...knowing that he will nvr be there on those nighly sojourns to pillouse... or those movie/karioke/ lets size up the chics sessions (um... considered "not belonging to a any particular gender" by both my male and female friends who unsmitten by any form of shame or decorum discuss ideal bust sizes and tits while i'm arnd)

    Now we are famous five -1.. BUT.... i am happy.. happy he found someone to cherish him above all others... to be there always... when we the friends are too busy with our own lives.. or ... well... u can;t do everything with friends u know

    BUT commiting u're self to someone does not meen u cut u;re self from society... it doesn;t mean u get into u;re own cocoon with only him/her inside
    but true u redo u're priorities.... its more important to answer a call from her, go home early to be with her as opposed to haging arnd with the single homeys..

    BUT ultimately we all need that "BEST friend" that ONE person we assume will put us above all else and for whome we do the same... that one person for whome we are willing to let go of our bloated egos and selfish desires

    Atleast to know that there is one person who you directly controbute towards making happy and who van tolerate u're imperfections is precious

    cos remeber friends come friends go
    a few really true friends remain.....
    they are precious.. but above all that single person who is willing to sacrfice it all for u is more precious

    There is a limit to friendships/ their willingness to sacrifice for u..... but we need atleast one source of infinite love.....


    So ideally, find someone who gets along with u;re friends
    We all know her and she has been a part of US (the friends for sometime) so he is not lost in two worlds... IF NOT well understand u;re priorities..
    and hehe f u're friends are single.. abt time they got attached if not hey dude u chose to be unattached to b free.... so fly freee... free from spouses, friends, parents.... y cling on.....

    (but hmmeveyone needs some friend.. v r unfortunately social creatures.. so its all abt harmony .. balance... understand the changing nature of friendships... that evenn u;re friends will not stay the sameand adjust with the changing times.... don;t b selfish don;t think u;re frinds must b only for u.. if they choose to get hooked up i geuss we hae to respect it and be happy cos they found happyness)

    By Blogger dewdrop, at 12:09 PM  

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